When I tell people that I am an author they immediately get curious; about the process of writing a book, about where I get my ideas, etc. To write a book it takes more than a pen, a bunch of papers, and some imagination. A lot more. It takes hours of research, missed lunches and dinners, countless hours of back-breaking writing, re-writing, editing, pots of coffee, bottles of Tylenol for back pain, and a lot more.
To help you understand what I’m talking about, I created a new category called *How my books were born* where I will share with you a short history about the making of each one of my books.
I will start with Unsung Victims.
Unsung Victims is book one in the Resiliency Series. It was not an easy book to write. Beside the facts mentioned above, when I wrote Unsung Victims, I went through every emotion with my characters. I cried with them and laughed with them as we traveled from a beautiful beginning, true romance really, to open hostility. The book has a sentimental value to me because it is based on the story of someone near and dear to my heart.
Divorce happens every day. We all know someone who is divorced or divorcing. We might have seen someone rise from the ashes of their divorce and forge ahead. We might have seen others who never get the strength to move on and start a better life. But what most people don’t think about is that the pain and discomfort of divorce is only known to those who go through it. In Unsung Victims art imitates life. Even under the best of circumstances, while going through a divorce people are compelled to act in a way they wouldn’t normally act under any other circumstances.
Though no longer the ugly word it once was, divorce must be one of the hardest decisions someone has to make. Your entire world crumbles with that single word. Everything comforting and stable and reliable, crumbles with that single word, and the decision to part ways is always painful because it affects not only the couple but those around its epicenter – children, parents, in-laws, friends and acquaintances.
(A friend of mine once said, “If you’re widowed you get all the sympathy going, death benefits and all the family assets. Divorced, and you’re suddenly perceived as a danger to other people’s spouses, lose most of everything you’ve worked for, and have to sink or swim on your own.”)
Here is another fact that few people, who haven’t been affected by divorce, consider. There is no justice, no sense of equality, in Family Court. One spouse has the house, the other one doesn’t. One parent has the kids, the other one doesn’t – even in a fifty/fifty custody – when the children are with the mother, they don’t have a father; when they are with the father, they don’t have a mother.
In Unsung Victims, both, Johanna and Louis make mistakes. Johanna is railroaded by Louis’ anger and by the system, her children are put in jeopardy, and they might not love her with the same innocence as before the divorce. I like happy endings, but in real life one is never guaranteed.
Book 2, Resilience, is expected to be released before the end of this year.